Taeha is literally the goat. he's so mature, caring and loving. The fact a 12 year old told his mom good job for all the things she does and how he helps his mom out and is caring to his siblings. The fact he misses his dad a lot but let his 2 younger siblings have him all to themselves and give his mom time with his dad and then hug his dad. Bruh, why is this kid so nice. I want a boyfriend like him, but 7 years older, lolllll. His personality is literally 11/10. He's so selfless, bro
@♡ Aura ♡ Being the oldest, sometimes its hard because when does have time to be a kid? He's going to eventually become tired of it! You can see he loves his sibling alot! But in order to take care of others, you got take care of yourself first. Down the line he is going to realize! He chooses to be mature, its not something he has to do. He could choose not to care, but he chooses to help his mom and love his sibling! Being the older sibling is rough because a lot of the responsibilites and expectation fall on them!
@♡ Aura ♡ yes, but the difference is that the parents had a choice when they decided to introduce their 3 kids to the world. tae ha didn't. he was brought into such a role without his consent, therefore such "responsibilities" shouldn't be expected of him. this is coming from an older sister of 3 brothers. yes, i love them to bits and will do everything in power to take care of them. but does that mean i'm obligated to? absolutely not. his caring attitude comes from the goodness of his heart and while that's all well and good, it's definitely taking a toll on him mentally and the fact that he couldn't live out his childhood as much as he wanted to will show up later in life. his inner child will remain unsatisfied and he will have a lot of unpack, emotionally in order to function in healthy relationships (platonic or romantic). may seem like a reach to see the extremes mentioned here, but i'm speaking from experience and hearing some other friends of mine say the same.
@♡ Aura ♡ i have an older sibling I'm the second oldest and she doesn't help out in any ways shes like the youngest and i don't mind neither does anyone else in my family so its isn't natural its kind of pushed on kids sometimes by the stereotypes that the eldest has to be the responsible on for the youngest, it's good to be mature and take care of others but he doesn't "have to" he should have a choice he isn't the parent.
@Kpop stan yeah He is only 12 and look at him how Caring and nice he is he took care of his 2 younger siblings and help his mom too and there is me i am 15 and i have 1 younger brother which is 10 years old i don’t even care about him i just help him doing his homeworks only because My Mom ask me for help he is really annoying, so stuped too i just can’t hande him my dad also isn’t at home like Taeha ‘s So Mom took care of my grandma ( Sometimes i also help her) But Not My Idiot Brother i am oldest sibling in my family i am acting 0% mature people say that i am childish just because i love when my Parents hug or kiss me i don’t think that i can ever be like this 12 years old boy…
He reminds me of Naeun lokkinh after Gunhoo and Jinwoo. They get more responsibility to look after the others and forget that they themselves are kids too
The fact that the dad came in. Taeha saw him first. Instead of hugging him, the dad asked him to stay silent to surprise the rest. And afterwards, when he finally got away from the kids, Taeha had to hug him first. Sometimes it’s so sad to be the eldest and a boy. Taeha may be so incredibly mature but it’s sad to see him have to fall in line behind his mom when his siblings are first in line. I wish they show him more love and affection and not take his maturity for granted. I cried watching this not because it was sweet, but because it was sad. And to see everyone praising Taeha from being such a wonderful child yet not pointing out how ignored he was. It’s sad to be taken for granted.
I'm in awe of Taeha - what an amazing young man. Please Dad spend some one on one time with him, show him how much you respect him for stepping into your role. He is so mature, stepping back to let the young ones take all of Dad's attention when I'm sure he was longing for a hugs too.
Yes.. I feel him so much since I'm an eldest myself... it messed me up big time as I got older because I'm so used to bottling all my emotions just not to burden my parents, unlike the parents in this vid, my parents push everything to me as an obligation because I'm the eldest.. I really appreciated him being selfless as much as possible but he's also a kid, i know he bottles it inside just like other eldest siblings do. That simple thing would've suffice.
the eldest has to act more mature than he should when he's still so young,,,,i rlly feel bad for him, he deserves the same amount of affection and care as the younger ones,,,
@absolutely not same i am also 14 soon will be 15 i am oldest sibling too i have younger brother we have like 5 years age gab as soon he born my parents didn’t pay as much attention like before they used to do my he is really lazy and stupid and he always hit and annoy me i am doing his homework’s and help my mom to do his food too not because i want its because my mom ask me i love my parents i love my grandparents but the way they think is just really annoying since i am girl and + oldest sibling i have to do everything ; dishes, food, help my mom doing houseworks + Do my Brother Homework bc he can’t i am that type of person who loves hugs, kisses, i love when my parents pay attention to me but fact that in my Family they only My mom Hugs me ( “ hugs me sometimes) and others just don’t even care about me its so hurtful to me and i because of that i always used to Cry in my room alone and i couldn’t even tell anyone but now i feel like i should just do what they want and when i grow more i will move out and will have better life
After watching this, I’m sure the mom will love and appreciate the eldest son a whole lot more, she got to see what she might’ve missed out on when she’s busy taking care of the other two
I’m literally crying Taeha is such a great brother and he helps his mum so so much but I think they should give him a little more attention he’s doing so so much and he deserves to get attention, hugs and kisses as much as his younger siblings do.
I hope the dad and the mother would spend time to yhe eldest child. The way he didnt come to his dad even though he miss him after seeing his sisters and brother already come to their dad makes my heart hurt. He is still 12 years old, i hope they would shower him with love too and teach the daughter slowly to help taeha and be more considerate
@Kianna Kuang The older son said he was ok with being by himself in a school dorm, which is common for young athletes, but the parents thought he was too young. Honestly, I almost think it would be better for him that way, because he already doesn't get a ton of attention at home and his mother relies on him too heavily to help with his younger siblings. If his parents REALLY wanted to all move to Jeju, and I don't think they do 👀 I think he would give up his dream to make his family happy, and that isn't good either.
@Lily Rayne I feel like if the oldest brother gives up his dream then the family could live together and there’s not much pressure for the oldest brother and he would get the love they need
@Kianna Kuang Yes, we can absolutely touch on that fact but it doesn’t change the fact that he isn’t receiving the love that he needs. He wants to express his feelings but he feels like he’ll make his mom sad. The recent episode that was just released really goes into details. I felt very bad for the parents and the child. It was episode 201
Her eldest son is the reason why she is still sane, she gotta discipline the kids a little bit more. And the daughter needs to learn that sharing is caring, don’t want her to grow up being a jealous and possessive person
@ParapioBuin me being the middle child. I was like that(my mom used to say that). I used to feel like my brother got much love from the parents as he was the first child, and youngest sister she is like a free bird, a typical maknae. So sometimes I used to seek for attention from my parents. Being possessive. It happens.. but as time goes on, it will solve💜
@Tyonna Davis There are quite a few episodes of them now including one where they go to therapy, so I think I may have replied to someones comment here thinking it was under one of the other videos that address that issue. I guess here it seems like a random and out of place comment 😅
@giselle I repeat she is 5. She misses her dad and doesn’t know how to handle big emotions. Emotions that even her mom has a hard time dealing with. They are all having a hard time but they are expressing it differently. Her brain is not even fully formed yet.
everytime the eldest child is helping her and people start to praise him she says "he likes to do it", he likes to help with the other kids, he likes to help her in the kitchen...maybe he doesn't like it, but now is something that he's so used to it because he knows the mother needs help with the other siblings and the house, so now it's a part of his personality...not saying anything bad about the mother because i know how much she actually needs the help, but i wish they would show him a little more love! he's a great brother and such an amazing son.
I’m the eldest out of 4 kids and I resonate with Taeha so much, being one of the parents when you’re still a kid yourself. I hope he doesn’t grow up to resent his parents like I did, and I hope his parents express their gratitude for him cause it isn’t so easy being selfless . He’s the glue of the family 🥺💛
Watching Taeha really made me get choked up; I remember being in such a similar position with being the eldest child that everyone depended on and put a lot of pressure on and how it made me into a person that has a lot to work on nowadays. Taeha seems to have an amazing head on his shoulders at such a young age and I hope that he gets all of the love, support, and time from both of his parents that he needs in order to follow his dream. I especially hope that he never has to give up on his dream for the sake of his family; he has such a bright future ahead and he deserves the best.
As the oldest child and having two younger siblings, I can totally relate to taeha. I mean we have to take care of our siblings and we don't get attention at all. :((
I understand your concerns. All the praises goes to the younger siblings while all the faults and mistakes are blame on the oldest. Such is our world. :(
honestly it’s crazy to see how mature their eldest son is, i am honestly so sorry for him i wish they’d spent more time with him as well, it’s especially hard if you have younger siblings:( i hope he continues to grow up well
I have never disagreed with a comment so much in my life. When the main panel said that Taeha was too old to give kisses to his dad that blew me. He is only 12 yrs old and like the rest of the kids, he hasn't seen his dad for 2 months it's not like he doesn't feel any less happy to see his dad like the other kids. Till this day and age me and my brother still give kisses to my mom and dad on the cheek and receive them to and we are 19 and 20 yrs old. The culture and upbringing for kids in Korea are all about growing up fast and taking care of the rest of the family as a substitute for the parents and I think that is very unfair. He's 12 for gods sakes he should be surrounded by loss of affection and love at that age, yes its great that he is such a responsible older brother but at the same time all 3 children should be given the same amount of attention his little sister no matter how old she is you can tell that is "her way or no way". They need to discipline her on equality and sharing, her older brother has every right to express himself at that age and want his father's attention as well that's what a normal child will want he shouldn't be worried about other responsibilities of yielding to his siblings just because he's the oldest 24/7.
@Tsuen Films Well it is personal preference based on your own cultural and home environment so I am not one to judge. It just surprises me to see since I've been raised since I was a small baby by a family that gives hugs and kisses on the cheek or forhead as a way to show affection and that they love/care about you.
Bruh why did I cry at when the oldest say “it’s okay” to the mom. OMG but like really someone needs to talk to him and ask him if he is okay. it brings tears to my eyes seeing him be basically the 3rd parent and he is only 12. Cant be just be a regular 12 year old the moms needs to stop depending on him so much .
I would consider him the second parent, their dad isn't home much sadly because of their work unless it's off season... I feel for the kid. It's not easy. The dad is the aunt or grandparent at this point.
Taeha is such an amazing son most of us at 12 weren’t like that she is so blessed 😩😩💜💜Poor mother she has to carry 3 children, one is already hard and by herself. They need the father to be there and take care of them. Time flies too fast and if not enough spent together in order to watch them grow up they can regret it later. She is so tired but so strong 💪
As the oldest child I can relate to the eldest having to be more mature and take more responsibility but I think he genuinely likes being a big brother and he enjoys spending time and taking care of everyone plus we see a fraction of what really goes on here, dont think you know everything there is to the family
Tae-ha is the blessing of God to this Family!!! i'm in awe when he said "Good job, good job today"!!! He is a man in the form of a 12-year-old child!!!
For him reliable is not a welcoming word ,.. it is just a word that gives justification for his mom's unpreparedness and reliance on someone who is incapable of responsibility. Tae Ha has learned how to fit in this society called family, when he himself has the right to demand for his moms love, and attention, he instead suppresses his desire in order to fit in. In any Family, the parents has a tendency to give more attention and care to those who demands it,. For those childs who are insightful, try to understand and or empathize with parents are often neglected. Because in parents' back of minds, they keep hypnotize themselves that their child will understand or they are satisfied with little love that they give, when actually the child in question feel neglected.
Me tienen riendo un llorando a la vez.. En realidad son una familia demasiado linda y aunque hayan dificultades podrán superarlos todos juntos, siempre con amor, comprensión y paciencia...nunca se rindan! Tienen unos hijos preciosos en especial me sorprendió mucho Taeha que amor de niño
I really appreciate the eldest child. He's so mature for his age. Standing for his father's absence and assisting his mother in taking care of younger siblings. I just hope he had his fair share of experiencing uaving fun as a child too
Taeha is caring and loving towards his younger Siblings and I noticed he adores he's mum a lot, Despite being just 12 he acts way older than his age. I 😍 loved it when he hugged his mum and told her good job for todat. So sweet
i am totally moved by the eldest son, he is so considerate, caring and dedicated. He will definitely be a great father/husband one day, if he so desires.
O cotidiano de uma família e assim mesmo , principalmente quando temos filhos pequenos , o pai provedor e a mãe uma guerreira , essa família tem muito amor , tudo vai dar certo .🤗🤗
I relate with the big brother sooo much. When your the eldest child your basically a third parent. I love how much he cares for his family. He’s great kid.
When the little girl started crying it reminded me of myself when younger. We used to live in Mexico and my dad worked in the US so he'd leave for a couple of months then come back for a week or two and it was that way until I was 5 and he decided to move us all to the US. As a kid, seeing your dad suddenly walk in the door after months of not seeing him, it feels indescribably relieving and sometimes you end up crying because of it.
as the first child of 3 siblings.. I relate so much to TaeHa... I feel you. You're doing great. It's not easy to support your siblings and your parents all at the same time, but you're really strong. What you're doing is more than what you should be doing.
Brb crying for the oldest child, he doesn't get enough T-T. They need to teach the girl "sharing is caring", at that age it can be seen as cute but not in teenagers.
I just feel too bad for the boy. I can literally feel that empty space in his heart...the pressure of being reliable and responsible. I have lived my life being in the same situation. Playing the same role. And believe me, when we grow up, it hurts more. And for the mom, I kinda find her immature to think that "that like doing that". He might be okay with doing that and maybe even like it a bit, but he is just 12! He deserves to get the affection & attention just like his other siblings.
Tbis is so much better than anything in American TV. This is a very pro family program. And I love how well this family functions and cares toe each other.
모두들 첫째가 듬직하다 잘 키웠다 하지만 아들은 대단하면서도 할 수밖에 없는 상황 속에서 열심히 살아가고 있을 것 같다. 당장 편집되고 영상 속 모습만으로 이렇게 얘기하는 것이 무례할 수도 있지만 그저 첫째가 엄마와 두 동생 사이에서 너무 많은 스트레스를 받지 않고, 가끔 자신도 들여다볼 수 있는 시간이 있기를... 어린 나이에 너무 많은 배려를 하다 보면 겉에서 티는 나지 않아도 본인도 모르게 안에서 무슨 일이 일어나는지 잘 알 수 없으니 말이다... 이 예쁜 가족이 항상 행복하기를 바랍니다:)
The eldest is mature, he understands that the mom needs to care more to the 2nd and youngest. Mostly eldest voices it out and tell their parents that their jealous of what they see through the 2nd and youngest. Glad he understands well
as an eldest, we receive much more love compared to the youngers ones and we have to learn to share our parent's affection to our other siblings so taeha being chill about his dad aftr 2 months is no big deal and he has matured faster enough. we both are in the same situation so for yall to say he did not receive a lot of affection is wrong
I started crying hard when the girl ran to him. So touching. Anyone would understand missing family member for so long. I feel for wife and husband for parting too long. Her oldest is so wonderful and well behave. Aww! The scene of them trying to hug and they play the ost song like a movie. Made me cried again. Beautiful family
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Taeha is literally the goat. he's so mature, caring and loving. The fact a 12 year old told his mom good job for all the things she does and how he helps his mom out and is caring to his siblings. The fact he misses his dad a lot but let his 2 younger siblings have him all to themselves and give his mom time with his dad and then hug his dad. Bruh, why is this kid so nice. I want a boyfriend like him, but 7 years older, lolllll. His personality is literally 11/10. He's so selfless, bro
@Kpop stan whats wrong with taking care of siblings too when you can enjoy your childhood too, he's happy so i dont know what you are talking about
@♡ Aura ♡ Being the oldest, sometimes its hard because when does have time to be a kid? He's going to eventually become tired of it! You can see he loves his sibling alot! But in order to take care of others, you got take care of yourself first. Down the line he is going to realize! He chooses to be mature, its not something he has to do. He could choose not to care, but he chooses to help his mom and love his sibling! Being the older sibling is rough because a lot of the responsibilites and expectation fall on them!
@♡ Aura ♡ yes, but the difference is that the parents had a choice when they decided to introduce their 3 kids to the world. tae ha didn't. he was brought into such a role without his consent, therefore such "responsibilities" shouldn't be expected of him. this is coming from an older sister of 3 brothers. yes, i love them to bits and will do everything in power to take care of them. but does that mean i'm obligated to? absolutely not. his caring attitude comes from the goodness of his heart and while that's all well and good, it's definitely taking a toll on him mentally and the fact that he couldn't live out his childhood as much as he wanted to will show up later in life. his inner child will remain unsatisfied and he will have a lot of unpack, emotionally in order to function in healthy relationships (platonic or romantic). may seem like a reach to see the extremes mentioned here, but i'm speaking from experience and hearing some other friends of mine say the same.
@♡ Aura ♡ i have an older sibling I'm the second oldest and she doesn't help out in any ways shes like the youngest and i don't mind neither does anyone else in my family so its isn't natural its kind of pushed on kids sometimes by the stereotypes that the eldest has to be the responsible on for the youngest, it's good to be mature and take care of others but he doesn't "have to" he should have a choice he isn't the parent.
@Kpop stan yeah
He is only 12 and look at him how Caring and nice he is
he took care of his 2 younger siblings and help his mom too
and there is me
i am 15 and i have 1 younger brother which is 10 years old
i don’t even care about him
i just help him doing his homeworks only because My Mom ask me for help
he is really annoying, so stuped too i just can’t hande him
my dad also isn’t at home like Taeha ‘s So Mom took care of my grandma ( Sometimes i also help her) But Not My Idiot Brother
i am oldest sibling in my family i am acting 0% mature
people say that i am childish just because
i love when my Parents hug or kiss me
i don’t think that i can ever be like this 12 years old boy…
why and i tearing up while watching the oldest? he is so precious. the mom would suffer so much without him.
He reminds me of Naeun lokkinh after Gunhoo and Jinwoo. They get more responsibility to look after the others and forget that they themselves are kids too
the oldest child is literally sooo mature beyond his ages the way he treats his siblings and his mother proves it and i wish him a bright future
The fact that the dad came in. Taeha saw him first. Instead of hugging him, the dad asked him to stay silent to surprise the rest. And afterwards, when he finally got away from the kids, Taeha had to hug him first. Sometimes it’s so sad to be the eldest and a boy. Taeha may be so incredibly mature but it’s sad to see him have to fall in line behind his mom when his siblings are first in line. I wish they show him more love and affection and not take his maturity for granted. I cried watching this not because it was sweet, but because it was sad. And to see everyone praising Taeha from being such a wonderful child yet not pointing out how ignored he was. It’s sad to be taken for granted.
I'm in awe of Taeha - what an amazing young man. Please Dad spend some one on one time with him, show him how much you respect him for stepping into your role. He is so mature, stepping back to let the young ones take all of Dad's attention when I'm sure he was longing for a hugs too.
right, hes so precious.
Yes.. I feel him so much since I'm an eldest myself... it messed me up big time as I got older because I'm so used to bottling all my emotions just not to burden my parents, unlike the parents in this vid, my parents push everything to me as an obligation because I'm the eldest..
I really appreciated him being selfless as much as possible but he's also a kid, i know he bottles it inside just like other eldest siblings do. That simple thing would've suffice.
@Morgane 97 thanks ❤️
@SkrrrrWw where to watch?
@suga it’s called ”you are My Destiny”
i’m literally crying with how good of a brother taeha is I wish my brother was like him
Give love to be loved
the eldest has to act more mature than he should when he's still so young,,,,i rlly feel bad for him, he deserves the same amount of affection and care as the younger ones,,,
@absolutely not same i am also 14 soon will be 15
i am oldest sibling too i have younger brother
we have like 5 years age gab
as soon he born my parents didn’t pay as much attention like before they used to do
my he is really lazy and stupid and he always hit and annoy me
i am doing his homework’s and help my mom to do his food too not because i want its because my mom ask me
i love my parents i love my grandparents but the way they think is just really annoying
since i am girl and + oldest sibling i have to do everything ; dishes, food, help my mom doing houseworks + Do my Brother Homework bc he can’t
i am that type of person who loves hugs, kisses, i love when my parents pay attention to me but fact that in my Family they only My mom Hugs me ( “ hugs me sometimes) and others just don’t even care about me its so hurtful to me and i because of that i always used to Cry in my room alone and i couldn’t even tell anyone
but now i feel like i should just do what they want and when i grow more i will move out and will have better life
A prime example of parentification.
@Jerica Vance oh no
I intend that his quality of life improves and that he can enjoy a commonly deserved childhood like every other child.
He went to therapy bc of this it’s on another episode
@absolutely not I don't care about them. This family doesn't either wether they like it or not.
After watching this, I’m sure the mom will love and appreciate the eldest son a whole lot more, she got to see what she might’ve missed out on when she’s busy taking care of the other two
She did notice at 16:30. This show allows also to see what they missed during the shouting.
Hopefully, he’s too precious!
I’m literally crying Taeha is such a great brother and he helps his mum so so much but I think they should give him a little more attention he’s doing so so much and he deserves to get attention, hugs and kisses as much as his younger siblings do.
I hope the dad and the mother would spend time to yhe eldest child. The way he didnt come to his dad even though he miss him after seeing his sisters and brother already come to their dad makes my heart hurt. He is still 12 years old, i hope they would shower him with love too and teach the daughter slowly to help taeha and be more considerate
hes 12, hes old enough
What she husband job?
@Kianna Kuang The older son said he was ok with being by himself in a school dorm, which is common for young athletes, but the parents thought he was too young. Honestly, I almost think it would be better for him that way, because he already doesn't get a ton of attention at home and his mother relies on him too heavily to help with his younger siblings. If his parents REALLY wanted to all move to Jeju, and I don't think they do 👀 I think he would give up his dream to make his family happy, and that isn't good either.
@Lily Rayne I feel like if the oldest brother gives up his dream then the family could live together and there’s not much pressure for the oldest brother and he would get the love they need
@Kianna Kuang Yes, we can absolutely touch on that fact but it doesn’t change the fact that he isn’t receiving the love that he needs. He wants to express his feelings but he feels like he’ll make his mom sad. The recent episode that was just released really goes into details. I felt very bad for the parents and the child. It was episode 201
I've never seen such a responsible and caring 12 year old, it's so heart warming 🥺❤
Right? 😭❤
Her eldest son is the reason why she is still sane, she gotta discipline the kids a little bit more. And the daughter needs to learn that sharing is caring, don’t want her to grow up being a jealous and possessive person
True af
@ParapioBuin me being the middle child. I was like that(my mom used to say that). I used to feel like my brother got much love from the parents as he was the first child, and youngest sister she is like a free bird, a typical maknae. So sometimes I used to seek for attention from my parents. Being possessive. It happens.. but as time goes on, it will solve💜
@Tyonna Davis There are quite a few episodes of them now including one where they go to therapy, so I think I may have replied to someones comment here thinking it was under one of the other videos that address that issue. I guess here it seems like a random and out of place comment 😅
@Juju what did you watch? did we watch the same thing becasue i didnt see that at all
@giselle I repeat she is 5. She misses her dad and doesn’t know how to handle big emotions. Emotions that even her mom has a hard time dealing with. They are all having a hard time but they are expressing it differently. Her brain is not even fully formed yet.
everytime the eldest child is helping her and people start to praise him she says "he likes to do it", he likes to help with the other kids, he likes to help her in the kitchen...maybe he doesn't like it, but now is something that he's so used to it because he knows the mother needs help with the other siblings and the house, so now it's a part of his personality...not saying anything bad about the mother because i know how much she actually needs the help, but i wish they would show him a little more love! he's a great brother and such an amazing son.
couldn’t stop thinking the same
i think he likes it, with such a great mum like that
Couldn’t agree more
i agree):
I’m the eldest out of 4 kids and I resonate with Taeha so much, being one of the parents when you’re still a kid yourself. I hope he doesn’t grow up to resent his parents like I did, and I hope his parents express their gratitude for him cause it isn’t so easy being selfless . He’s the glue of the family 🥺💛
Your comment 💯💯
why would he resent his parents, his parents are the best, he should be thankful
The eldest is so precious he help and cheer up his mom she's really lucky to have a son like him by her side ❤😊
Watching Taeha really made me get choked up; I remember being in such a similar position with being the eldest child that everyone depended on and put a lot of pressure on and how it made me into a person that has a lot to work on nowadays. Taeha seems to have an amazing head on his shoulders at such a young age and I hope that he gets all of the love, support, and time from both of his parents that he needs in order to follow his dream. I especially hope that he never has to give up on his dream for the sake of his family; he has such a bright future ahead and he deserves the best.
As the oldest child and having two younger siblings, I can totally relate to taeha. I mean we have to take care of our siblings and we don't get attention at all. :((
I understand your concerns. All the praises goes to the younger siblings while all the faults and mistakes are blame on the oldest. Such is our world. :(
because you get attention and love before they born 😂😂
so it's their time 😂😂
@rick :(
Im the middle child of five.. also called the forgotten kid. Looool
I am the eldest and have 5 sibling 😂 the baby sitter 😂😭
태하 다기다려주고 마지막에 안아달라고 할때 눈물핑
잘했어 수고했어요 엄마...
이말 진짜 듬직하다
honestly it’s crazy to see how mature their eldest son is, i am honestly so sorry for him i wish they’d spent more time with him as well, it’s especially hard if you have younger siblings:( i hope he continues to grow up well
Taeha is such a wonderful boy. He’s every parents dreams as a child. He was raised well, loving, caring & dependable even at his age.
동생 엄마한테 먼저 양보하고 젤 나중에 아빠한테 안기네 태하 너도 애긴데 너무 듬직해져버렸다..
태하부터 잘 챙겨주세요. 멋진 남자네요
동상이몽 보면서 흐뭇해하다가 울다가 진짜ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 김성은님 진짜 대단하세요... 아이들 너무 잘자라고 있는거 같으니깐 사랑 못줬다는 죄책감 같지 마세요.. 진짜 애기들이 다 사랑둥이다
갖지
I have never disagreed with a comment so much in my life. When the main panel said that Taeha was too old to give kisses to his dad that blew me. He is only 12 yrs old and like the rest of the kids, he hasn't seen his dad for 2 months it's not like he doesn't feel any less happy to see his dad like the other kids. Till this day and age me and my brother still give kisses to my mom and dad on the cheek and receive them to and we are 19 and 20 yrs old. The culture and upbringing for kids in Korea are all about growing up fast and taking care of the rest of the family as a substitute for the parents and I think that is very unfair. He's 12 for gods sakes he should be surrounded by loss of affection and love at that age, yes its great that he is such a responsible older brother but at the same time all 3 children should be given the same amount of attention his little sister no matter how old she is you can tell that is "her way or no way". They need to discipline her on equality and sharing, her older brother has every right to express himself at that age and want his father's attention as well that's what a normal child will want he shouldn't be worried about other responsibilities of yielding to his siblings just because he's the oldest 24/7.
Thank you thats what I wana say 2
@Yaneli De Jesus if i was a parent i would do the same , but unfortunately my parents werent like this
@Tsuen Films Well it is personal preference based on your own cultural and home environment so I am not one to judge. It just surprises me to see since I've been raised since I was a small baby by a family that gives hugs and kisses on the cheek or forhead as a way to show affection and that they love/care about you.
well i never received kisses lol. 12 is pretty mature anyways
태하야. 혹시나 언젠가 이 글을 보게된다면 조금이나마 너에게 힘이 되었으면 좋겠어. 널 응원하는 사람들이 이렇게도 많단다. 늘 건강히 지금처럼 반듯하게 잘 커가기를 삼촌이 멀리서 기도할게!
이모도 기도할게!!태하짱짱!!
@vfyw 꼴깞은맞긴함 저아이가 저글을볼까과연ㅋㅋ누군지도모르는사람인데ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 축구밖에모르는애가 이프로그램찾아서 들어와서귀찮게 저 댓글 보고 우와삼촌고마워요 ㅋㅋ이러겠니
@vfyw ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ개인정
아니 응원하는건 좋은데 오글거렼ㅋㅋ
Aih que lindo até deu uma vontade de ter uma família ❤️❤️🦋
why am i crying so bad for taeha :( he's so sweet and responsible :( i hope they will shower him with love
Bruh why did I cry at when the oldest say “it’s okay” to the mom. OMG but like really someone needs to talk to him and ask him if he is okay. it brings tears to my eyes seeing him be basically the 3rd parent and he is only 12. Cant be just be a regular 12 year old the moms needs to stop depending on him so much .
@white g is he a foot baller?
@MissyxAkunai he is making money for the fam
I see myself so much in the oldest, I am sure he need to talk with someone
I would consider him the second parent, their dad isn't home much sadly because of their work unless it's off season... I feel for the kid. It's not easy. The dad is the aunt or grandparent at this point.
@sempre que você ler os comentários, eu estarei lá Tf you talking about dude
Your oldest son is precious. Such a big helper and so intuitive as to what everyone needs.
18:42 아들이 ...엄마한테.. 오늘도 ... 잘했어 수고했어래......아들을 저렇게 키운 엄마도 대단하지만, 저렇게 태어나 잘 자라준 아들도 존멋♥
wow when taeha told his mom at the end of the day that she did a really good job todaym it melted my heart and i cried. he is raised well
Taeha is such an amazing son most of us at 12 weren’t like that she is so blessed 😩😩💜💜Poor mother she has to carry 3 children, one is already hard and by herself. They need the father to be there and take care of them. Time flies too fast and if not enough spent together in order to watch them grow up they can regret it later. She is so tired but so strong 💪
As the oldest child I can relate to the eldest having to be more mature and take more responsibility but I think he genuinely likes being a big brother and he enjoys spending time and taking care of everyone plus we see a fraction of what really goes on here, dont think you know everything there is to the family
the eldest son deserves the world he is so precious!
O Taeha é tão fofo e maduro
Tae-ha is the blessing of God to this Family!!! i'm in awe when he said "Good job, good job today"!!! He is a man in the form of a 12-year-old child!!!
But still at that age he needs love even mature kids are also kids
Her eldest son is so reliable. Touched my heart
@sam sammy I agree with you, but the mom has to take care of three children while the dad is away. It is tough for her too.
For him reliable is not a welcoming word ,.. it is just a word that gives justification for his mom's unpreparedness and reliance on someone who is incapable of responsibility. Tae Ha has learned how to fit in this society called family, when he himself has the right to demand for his moms love, and attention, he instead suppresses his desire in order to fit in.
In any Family, the parents has a tendency to give more attention and care to those who demands it,. For those childs who are insightful, try to understand and or empathize with parents are often neglected. Because in parents' back of minds, they keep hypnotize themselves that their child will understand or they are satisfied with little love that they give, when actually the child in question feel neglected.
태하가 엄마도와주는걸좋아한다기보다 엄마가힘들까봐 도와주는대견한아들이네요 ❤️
이가족 왤케 사랑스럽냐 진짜 눈물 광광 ㅠㅠㅠ
태하 진짜 진국이다...저렇게 올바른 아이는 처음봐 대단해...
Que legal,tem legenda! ❤️
This couple is literally so cute I can’t !!
김성은도 엄마가 처음이라 "태하는 엄마를 도와주는걸 좋아해요"이런 말들이... 너무 애를 모르는것같다는 생각이 다시 한 번 들었네ㅠ
자신들은 얼마나 엄마노릇을 잘했길래, 그런 지적질이야…..자신 먼저 돌아보셈!!! 엉터리짓 하고 사는 자신은 보지못하고, 남은 함부로 평가하네….. 😡
엄마가 너무 애를 모른다
누구는 부모를 해보고 부모가 되었냐? 태하는 엄청 스트레스 받고 있다 참 답답하다
그래도 칭찬 잘 해주고 애 효능감은 잘 채워주는듯..
안그래도 어제 편에서 정조국씨 김성은씨 태하까지 소아전문의에게 상담 받았어요
Me tienen riendo un llorando a la vez.. En realidad son una familia demasiado linda y aunque hayan dificultades podrán superarlos todos juntos, siempre con amor, comprensión y paciencia...nunca se rindan! Tienen unos hijos preciosos en especial me sorprendió mucho Taeha que amor de niño
Taeha is the most precious human ever he deserves so much love. I want him to be happy forever sincerely
I really appreciate the eldest child. He's so mature for his age. Standing for his father's absence and assisting his mother in taking care of younger siblings. I just hope he had his fair share of experiencing uaving fun as a child too
매일 같이있는거 보다는 이렇게 가끔씩 보는것도 부부관계에는 나쁘지 않다고 봅니다. 혼자 육아책임지는성은씨의 희생과 사랑이 대단하네요😃👍
@ㅇㅅㅇ
결혼후 아내에게 나타납니다
그래도 태하는 인성이좋고
공감능력좋은듯
부부관계는 괜찮을지 몰라도 성은씨가 혼자 너무 힘들다보니 첫째도 너무 어릴때부터 아빠역할을 대신하게 되는거 같아요ㅠ
저렇게 다 자라던 첫째들이 다 커서도 서운하고 어릴때 애답게 어리광못부린게 다 커서 나옴.. 어쩔수없지만 바람직하다곤못하겠네요
All my love for the eldest son. He is so responsible and a sweetheart.
진짜 남편을 사랑하는 듯..사랑이 없으면 불가.보기 조아요
Woooowww (✯ᴗ✯)esto es realmente adorable , incluso llore al ver la alegría de su padre y el sentimiento ...... realmente muy feliz (☆▽☆)
간만에 동상이몽 감동부부네요
가정애를 느끼고 함께 마음 따뜻해지는 이런 가족의 모습을 많이 보여주시면 좋겠어요
성은씨 가족 너무 보기좋아요 응원합니다
WHY AM I TEARING UP :( I REALLY LOVE THE ELDEST HE'S TO PRECIOUS 🥺
Taeha is such a amazing son Im crying 😭
This is the definition of a family. Regardless of the distance they still keep their family bonded with love and care.
Ohmygod, unconsconsciously i got tears by this beautiful reunion.
Taeha is caring and loving towards his younger Siblings and I noticed he adores he's mum a lot,
Despite being just 12 he acts way older than his age. I 😍 loved it when he hugged his mum and told her good job for todat. So sweet
i am totally moved by the eldest son, he is so considerate, caring and dedicated. He will definitely be a great father/husband one day, if he so desires.
dont even know this family but only a few minutes in and i think they're so golden. Everyone's so lucky to have each other
O cotidiano de uma família e assim mesmo , principalmente quando temos filhos pequenos , o pai provedor e a mãe uma guerreira , essa família tem muito amor , tudo vai dar certo .🤗🤗
I relate with the big brother sooo much. When your the eldest child your basically a third parent. I love how much he cares for his family. He’s great kid.
Nossa, a primeira vez nesse canal e já ri e já chorei 😂😂😂😂😂💞
Eu também
Eu tô impressionada com a educação desse menino ele me fez chorar umas 5 vezes
보면서 울었다가 웃었다가 반복하네요. 두분 부부 너무 애틋함이 느껴지고..멋진 장남 정말 👍 엄지척♡
When he said you did a good job today I cried
이 가족 너무 사랑스러워서 슈돌에서 보고 싶어요 ㅠㅠ 태하 의젓하고 윤하도 사랑스럽고 막내 재하는 너무 귀여워요 태하는 존재만으로도 넘 감동적이고 재하는 미쳤음 진짜 너무귀여웤ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
When the little girl started crying it reminded me of myself when younger. We used to live in Mexico and my dad worked in the US so he'd leave for a couple of months then come back for a week or two and it was that way until I was 5 and he decided to move us all to the US. As a kid, seeing your dad suddenly walk in the door after months of not seeing him, it feels indescribably relieving and sometimes you end up crying because of it.
as the first child of 3 siblings.. I relate so much to TaeHa... I feel you.
You're doing great. It's not easy to support your siblings and your parents all at the same time, but you're really strong.
What you're doing is more than what you should be doing.
Thank you for adding English Captions in KRclip settings ❤️, cute family, Baek Ji Young's commentary is 🔥👍
태하는 진짜 사랑받고 잘 컸네요
엄마를 진심 사랑하는티가 나네요
I’m loving this show plus it’s so touching 💕
18:45 wow, these words are so important
I'm crying now~
Her son the best
😭😭
The older son is so precious!
눈물 찔찔 짜다가 지영언니 리액션 보고 개터지네 아 지영언니 웃는것만 봐도 웃김🤣
태하도 알게 모르게 스트레스 쌓일수 있으니 엄마가 한번씩 고맙다는 식으로 계속 표현해주면 좋을듯!
@할부로애틋하게 전혀요 태하 동생이랑 나이차 꽤 나서 외동으로 온전히 혼자 사랑받은 기간도 적지 않습니다. 뭔데 이것만 보고 잘 아는거처럼 남 가정사 욀가왈부 하시는지...
@할부로애틋하게 76
@Nine C a7ta757
@우루 a7a577575a75a75a5
Please give taeha lots of kisses and hug.He is truly a blessing for the family.
11:41 como llore lpm que chiquita y como extrañaba a su papá🥺
점잖고 든든한남편에 김성은은
애교꾼에 아이셋 잘 키우는
에너지까지~
예쁜가족이네요ㅡ
자주못보는데도 아빠보자마자
달려가는아이들보면
정말 가정적인아빠인듯
방송보며 응원합니다
Brb crying for the oldest child, he doesn't get enough T-T. They need to teach the girl "sharing is caring", at that age it can be seen as cute but not in teenagers.
I just feel too bad for the boy. I can literally feel that empty space in his heart...the pressure of being reliable and responsible. I have lived my life being in the same situation. Playing the same role. And believe me, when we grow up, it hurts more.
And for the mom, I kinda find her immature to think that "that like doing that". He might be okay with doing that and maybe even like it a bit, but he is just 12! He deserves to get the affection & attention just like his other siblings.
Chorei junto🥺
Tbis is so much better than anything in American TV. This is a very pro family program. And I love how well this family functions and cares toe each other.
Família 🥰🇧🇷
Taeha, you're a very affectionate and loving son. In the future I want a son just like you. ❤️❤️❤️
진짜 최고의 가족 .... 이런 가족이 진짜 행복한거지 ㅠㅠ
백지영 도중에 반말하다가 자각하는거 넘 귀엽다ㅋㅋ
모두들 첫째가 듬직하다 잘 키웠다 하지만 아들은 대단하면서도 할 수밖에 없는 상황 속에서 열심히 살아가고 있을 것 같다. 당장 편집되고 영상 속 모습만으로 이렇게 얘기하는 것이 무례할 수도 있지만 그저 첫째가 엄마와 두 동생 사이에서 너무 많은 스트레스를 받지 않고, 가끔 자신도 들여다볼 수 있는 시간이 있기를... 어린 나이에 너무 많은 배려를 하다 보면 겉에서 티는 나지 않아도 본인도 모르게 안에서 무슨 일이 일어나는지 잘 알 수 없으니 말이다... 이 예쁜 가족이 항상 행복하기를 바랍니다:)
@진우 저런 성향 없어요. 그저 자신의 감정을 억누를뿐.. 나중에 어른으로 자라면 마음에 한구석에 한이 있음. 타인은 쉽게 생각하죠
무슨소리 어른의 역할을 강요하지 않아도 원래 성향이 아래 애들 잘 챙기고 그런 아이들이 있어요. 김성은님이 첫째만 차별하거나 강요하는거도 아니고 자연스럽게 저러는건 좋은겁니다
애기 애 다워야지 너무 일찍 많은 걸 포기하면 나중에 후회가 많이 남게 됨.
사람은 누구나 그 나이에 할 일이 있음.
맞아요. 보기는 좋지만 태하입장에서는 뭔가 잘못된겁니다.
제가 어렸을 때 그랬어요. 나중에 커서는 마음의 병이 생기더라구요. 어린 나이에 너무 어른스러운것도 짠하네요 ㅠ ㅠ
Eu ameiiiiiii❤️❤️❤️😂
The eldest is mature, he understands that the mom needs to care more to the 2nd and youngest. Mostly eldest voices it out and tell their parents that their jealous of what they see through the 2nd and youngest. Glad he understands well
아이들이 별로 못본 아빠를 어색해하지 않고 사랑 가득한 이유는 부부 사이가 너무 너무 좋으니 아이들도 아빠의 존재를 엄마가 느끼는 감정 그대로 사랑하는듯
애들은 다 흡수합니다
태하도 좋은 엄마 아빠 그대로 닮은 예쁜 아들이고 이 가족 너무 훈훈하다
아이들 너무 예쁘다^^
아들 듬직하고 딸도 예쁘고 막내는 귀엽고~~
as an eldest, we receive much more love compared to the youngers ones and we have to learn to share our parent's affection to our other siblings so taeha being chill about his dad aftr 2 months is no big deal and he has matured faster enough. we both are in the same situation so for yall to say he did not receive a lot of affection is wrong
The 2nd child is something else
The 1st child is such a responsible and loving son/sibling
Gracias por los subtitulos en español 🙇🙇
Am crying Tae is such a wonderful son anyone could ask for
I started crying hard when the girl ran to him. So touching. Anyone would understand missing family member for so long. I feel for wife and husband for parting too long. Her oldest is so wonderful and well behave. Aww! The scene of them trying to hug and they play the ost song like a movie. Made me cried again. Beautiful family
do you know the name of the ost played?
idk but *Taeha* made me cry so many times on this video :') ♡ He is *understanding and reliable* :'> ♡
Taeha is the best son/bro a parent could ask for; they did a terrific job raising him
This was honestly sweet and heartbreaking🥺
이 영상 제 울음벨 ㅠㅠ 감동 포인트가 너무 많은 것 같아요.. 태하도 감동적이고 부부 사이도 감동적 😭 ♥️
Ooh, the son is considerate and caring to his siblings... a very responsible a child at his age. God bless you more son.
보는 내내 계속 눈물이 나네요 같은 엄마 입장이라 다 이해가 되서 그런 것 같아요 힘내세요! 태하 진짜 심쿵이네요 ❤